LOVE IS BEING APPRECIATIVE

Written by on 22/02/2021

As people all over the world celebrated Valentine’s Day this year was exceptionally different as the whole world are all going through a pandemic.

With that said we all have lost someone close to use and that should be a lesson to all of us that we need to appreciate those who are here now.

The new change should also make use understand that Valentine’s day is not just for lovers or couples but for the entire family who make a positive impact in your life.

We have an opportunity to now expand on the term love whether it is conditional or unconditional love.

When we understand the different types of love out there, we can become conscious of how deep our connection is with ourselves and the other people in our lives.

What different types of love are you currently experiencing and how are they impacting your life?

When you answer the question of love, you find that the meaning of love to you is different to another person because different factors affect how we interpret love.

A number of factors play a role in how we identify with the word LOVE.

Some will say Love starts with you evaluating yourself and loving yourself from within.

People often get confused between lust, attraction, and companionship. Hence, there is no one best definition of love. However, what does love mean can be summarised as an intense feeling of euphoria and deep affection for someone or something. This love definition or love meaning might not encompass all the emotions that are surging within you.

Love can be tough sometimes.
Love is complete acceptance: When we allow someone to be exactly as they are, without any belief that they aren’t good enough, without any belief that they would be “better” if they were different, this is love. Love is completely unconditional: Love has no conditions. When we truly love someone, we can’t stop loving them, regardless of what they do or say.

To understand what is the meaning of love, we really need to understand what prevents us from loving. When we believe our judgments about someone, we can feel anger, disappointment, or resentment, or we can just feel separate from that person. All of this blocks us or prevents us from loving the person we are with.

When we are with someone, and believing our judgments, commentary, or labels about them, this puts up a wall or a barrier between us. We aren’t connecting with them, loving them, and truly being with them. We are just experiencing our thoughts about them. For example, we might experience our thoughts about how they aren’t appreciative enough, aren’t in good enough shape, aren’t a good enough father etc. But these thoughts just get in the way of love.

When we believe our judgments about people, it can seem as if we are alone or separate from others. This creates this longing for connection and love. All it takes to have this connection we yearn for is to just be with people without judgment. In the absence of judgment, love is what remains.

When we are not believing our judgments about someone, we are loving them, or in other words, we are being present with them (i.e. living in the moment with them). When we are present with someone, we automatically feel a closer connection to, and more intimacy with, the people around us. Our feeling of separateness from people disappears.

If you want to feel love, it is helpful to first understand what is the meaning of love. If someone else loves you, but you don’t care about that person, how much impact does that person’s love have on your level of happiness? You may have noticed, it has very little impact. If receiving love from someone else had the power to make us feel good, then anyone’s love would give us the same good feeling. But, clearly this isn’t how life works.

The reason is because fulfilment doesn’t come from receiving love; the feeling of happiness and completion we have always wanted comes from loving others. When we love someone without wanting or expecting anything in return, we feel free, open, and wonderful.

The Love within you is your message to all who surround you but with this the greatest message is show appreciation to those you love and be thankful for loved ones journey in your life.

Love hurts, love conquers but love exists.


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